imperfectionist

maybe we are chasing the wrong blessings for ourselves? we attract opportunity, we don't chase it. what's yours will be yours. just let go, and let God.

Being a woman is is not that easy, because while we are young we follow the standards of how a woman should behave even its a far from our real personality. "you should wear a floral dress" "don't cut your hair it doesn't suit you." "you seems gaining weight, try to lose weight" "you're old, get married" "when will you have a baby." These comments are societal pressure it may seems so off, they tend to give their opinions to our personal lives, they dictate how we live as a women. Maybe the good idea is just focus on our flaws and use it as a opportunity to love ourselves more, accepting all our imperfections because that makes us so perfect loving ourselves. NO ONE GETS TO DECIDE THE LEVEL OF YOUR BEAUTY, IT'S JUST YOU.  

  People don't change instantly they Transform. Change is something you shift in a different personality while transformation is a character development wherein you do minor changes but it has your personality. While growing old I noticed that people tend to be judgy all of the time. and maybe we have to deal with those kind of people. Mapapansin nila pag tumaba ka, pag umitim ka, kapag may nagbago sayo. They think it's okay to give their own opinion sa life natin, maybe their understanding is when they give an opinion we change instantly but we are not. We transform, we develop and we grow and while transforming nandiyaan yung pag process ng judgment ng mga tao saatin, sometimes masakit talaga yung judgment nila, but for me I taught myself to perceive all the judgment as a foundation to develop my potentials, my skills and my personality. We don't have to get the wrong idea all of the time, we just have to be positive and be our best self. We don't have to change just ...

  We should remember that every challenges in our own lives should be acknowledge as a gift. Even the situation is difficult for us, because at the end of the day there's a great thing will happen to us that we did not expect. Remember: hindi laging umuulan. sisikatan parin tayo ng araw, and that sun will symbolize another chance and another grateful moment to survive. 

  I realized something and created this quote that we are not dumb we are just clueless human beings and our mission is to figure it out what purpose our lives has. we are not born that we are good at everything, we are born with gifts that God has been given to us and our mission is to enhance it and be good at things we want to achieve. reminder: wake up in a sunny day and do your best everyday.

      Have you ever feel like you want to take a break from people from the situation or basically everything? I just noticed that other people think that private people were boring. I'm sharing this because I’m a lowkey private person I would say but not totally. Well here’s a thing.      Some people may choose this kind of living (being private) because it’s much more peaceful, like they don’t post where place they visit, they don’t share stories on their social Medias. Not because they are hiding from the world or hiding from haters but because they don’t give so much time taking the perfect picture to update people on their socials but instead they are too busy spending their own time having special bond and with peace and by that they don’t have to worry about opinions of other people. Another thing! When a private person doesn’t share what they attain and what they succeed on, it doesn’t make them a loser, definitely NOT! They just continu...